Is love fat free?

Maggie's Diary | Maggie Modopoulou | Tuesday, January 19th, 2010 at 11:36

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Don’t you think it is really annoying to start thinking about something when you are almost ready to fall asleep? Then you can kiss your sleep goodbye.

This happens to me very often. Like the other day, I was lying in my warm bed, yawning, when I started thinking how many times have I mentioned that I wish to find, want to find, thought I have found my other half.

Although I don’t like repeating thins, this time I will… I strongly believe that being single is not like being sick, but you cannot stay single for ever.

Who doesn’t want to have a person by his/her side, with whom he/she can share feelings, emotions, moments, years…
After all, companionship is according to the human nature.

So finding your other half (or your other… full as my friend A. said in her Facebook status) is indeed something really important.

Love is a matter of timing

So far in my “prayers” I have forgotten to say that not only I want to find the right man, but I want to find him on the right time.
Because what happens if you find him/her and he/she is married with 5 kids, or if you are married, or if you are both married, or if you find him/her 30 years too late or if you had found him/her 30 years ago and did not know then? They say that love is happiness but for me in the above cases it seems more like a problem.

You see, a good timing is not only to be in the right spot and on the right moment but also on the right time.
Love is not a low fat cheese that you can eat without feeling any guilt.
Of course beforehand you know nothing… You don’t know if you have found the love of your life, or the person you want to spend you life with. This is something you learn in the process…

I you have chosen to compromise from the beginning you know that you have listened to your mind and not your heart, so you hope that eventually mind and heart will lead the same way. Why not? Love is not always from the first sight, sometimes it comes along the way.
If you have listened to your heart from the fist place, you wish that you will continue to live in a dream that will not turn into nightmare.

Either way, sooner or later you will find out if you have made the right choice, because the truly right person will eventually appear.

What happens if you find the right person in the wrong time?

What do you do in that case? Personally I rest my case and admit that I don’t have a clue. The decision is and should be personal.

Of course every person should live a truly strong love but in the case of the wrong timing he/she should be ready to face the consequences and to deal with them. Don’t forget that someone’s true love could hurt many others…

Also, in the wrong timing case you should think everything at least twice. You don’t want to end up hurting some people’s feelings for nothing…

But the cost of love is usually a price worth paying…

You will know if you have made the right decision if you start smiling more often and sleeping better at night…